go away!

tink 4nw, we all seemed tied down 2relationship stuff. i dun wanna tink abt it a wee bit. its heart breaking. i dun wanna give myself anymore hopes in relationships. sorry 4being so -ve. i'll bless any couples ard me. duno y i feel like i wanna be a loner. after yest's outing, e feeling's even stronger.

y is it tat guys n gals can nv jus b reali gd frens? y is it tat guys always get close 2gals when they wan them 2b theirs'? once they'r rejected, they'l jus disappear into thin air. i understand tat its quite embarassing or difficult 2face e person who rejected u. but i tink they reject u coz they'l rather keep u as a fren, isnt it? y is it tat guys cant treat gals as frens 1st, understand them further, then ask e qn when they tink tat they'r reali compatible? most of e time they'l go straight in, hit-n-run... arent they tired, rushing ard n having 2avoid after they fail?

actually, its their problem rite? y m i dwelling so much 4them? gals always have 2help guys tink. but they always get e credit. a fren once said she'l rather stay single all her life. she tinks since we r born alone, our limit 2tgs n pressure is only a human unit. being a couple means double pressure n responsibilities. tats wat she tinks most ppl cant bare, n its unnecessary 2trouble urselves over them...
tats extreme tinking. i had a hard time toking her out of this mindset. but stil failed. nw im tinkg perhaps she was rite. not absolutely. but there's truth in it. if u wan no headaches of others, stay single. althou tats not e ultimate solution. at least its e most controllable, feasible temporary solution. tats avoiding, isnt it? i wont recommend. but wat else can we do?

when u've sorted tgs out w URSELF, u wont needa avoid liao. tgs dun get themselves sorted out automatically. y is nature so irresponsible? create troubles but dun clear their mess... im not gonna help trouble clear it's mess. lets wait n c who can bare w it longer... haha