hyperactive

yest was on e bus w a fren. he apologised 2me 4being abit hyperactive, cant sit still, keep fidgiting. i said its ok. he was worried his kids would tk his genes. i tot kids shld generally b more active. i dun like e v quite kids. 2me, hyperactive kids learn more. although smtimes it may b irritating n exhausting 2handle these imps, but its oli normal, isnt it?

he was saying he's always been talkative n active since young. n i was abit envious. coz i tot active kids learn more n in e right ways... 2b more vocal, speak up. this is e kind of ppl who will succeed in life. i wont let my kids b like e typical sporean students nwadys, wait 2b fed n jus do wat they r told. no leadership, no creativity, no nothing!!! hw 2compete effectively in this society?

thinking back, i was 1of those quiet, obedient students. learnt quite abit of knowledge, but didnt develop much. its oli till recent yrs tat i learn 2speak up. tats when i realised my vocal potential!!! tats ME. tats e kind of ME i wanna b n shld b. ppl may tink im 2noisy, irritating. but i guess i prefer e current me then e 1 10yrs ago.

comparing my fren... he said he's always been hyper. but i dun tink so leh. nwadays c him like quite quiet. dun talk much, dun fool ard much oso. i was tinkg if its coz he tired liao, battery run out...

if e hyper can change over time, would it b betta tat my kid b quiet when young n become hyper in adult hood like me, or like my fren, hyper when young, develop enough liao then keep low profile?

wat's ur preference?